Nerioda on January 19th, 2012

我真正的值得追求和保持的特色:
Utterly honest, and never dying of curiosity and learning!

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Nerioda on December 29th, 2011

The day you graduated from school, there is one thought: how little they actually taught me for almost 18 years! And this realization will be more and more clearer throughout the course of the rest of your life.

Nerioda on October 11th, 2011

只要我们不丧失自我,
什么样的生活都可容忍;
我们尽可以失去一切,
只要我们依旧是我们。

Nerioda on October 9th, 2011

回家自己家门上夹着一传单宣传什么选举权,你知道,自然是"红色"的。对这些文件造就当废纸了,但是这次突然因为无聊,仔细看看,好像是要求得事实来证明我已持有的观点一样。不出所料,除了一些什么"神圣的一票","履行光荣的选民职责"等等这样的话语外,另外还有不可忽视的文字说明怎么去注册选民的。发觉与其说是"怎么去成为选民",不如说是"什么是选民";这些文档上的中文,总是有一种混淆"how"和”what"的倾向。原来,不是任何合法诚实纳税的成年人都"是”"选民"的。

(P.S. 哦,还有,不要忘了,有没有选举权和会不会去投票是两回事。)

Nerioda on October 5th, 2011

突然感觉Chalee Tennison 的歌很不错。

Nerioda on September 21st, 2011

对于美丽的女人来说,幸福的条件很简单:找到那位真正爱自己和有事业感的,外表和内心都美的男人。

你不需要荣华来衬托自己。

Nerioda on September 12th, 2011

Information A, 100个人中只有5个人知道,这5个人被认为深奥,其余的人被称为肤浅。

Nerioda on August 25th, 2011

美丽

朴实无华, 敏感,细心

喜欢小孩

自信

开朗

英语好

充满好奇,不排除新鲜事物

 

Nerioda on August 14th, 2011

这段日子过得很不好。因为我意识到自己拥有很严重的人际关系的交往能力的问题。以前,我以为我只要做到自己的诚实就可以了,所以,我可以大胆的说我是一个很自我中心的人。但是,最近通过很多事件的反省和朋友的帮助,我看到我这个自我中心的人可能对他人和我自己带来的危害。

是的,其实,更主要的,是它”对我自己带来的危害”。以前我以为只要我诚实,并表白自己是一个自我中心的人,至少自己会得到快乐。我有一系列的理论来支撑我这个观点:比如亚当斯密的个人主义的不可见之手,卡尔.波普尔的个人主义,利他主义和集体主义的关系——基本上是个人主义是和利他主义不相冲突的(想到父母和子女的关系,个人主义的真正对立面是集体主义)等等。但是,愚蠢的我没有意识,把这些理论观点错误的应用到现在我个人的私人生活不说,更是没有意识到其实这是一个非常大的自欺——我自己一直不感到快乐!谈何诚实?!

昨天借助一个非常好的朋友,让我认识到,If I can’t accept who I am, I can’t really to love someone else. 我明显的知道,这是我的一个根本的问题。对着镜子看看我自己吧,把所看到的人当做自己最好的朋友而不是敌人!

我知道这很难,而且会很漫长!但希望,今天是一个开始。

• Do not do to others what you would not want them to do to you.

• In all things, strive to cause no harm.

• Treat your fellow human beings, your fellow living things, and the world in general with love, honesty, faithfulness and respect.

• Do not overlook evil or shrink from administering justice, but always be ready to forgive wrongdoing freely admitted and honestly regretted.

• Live life with a sense of joy and wonder.

• Always seek to be learning something new.

• Test all things; always check your ideas against the facts, and be ready to discard even a cherished belief if it does not conform to them.

• Never seek to censor or cut yourself off from dissent; always respect the right of others to disagree with you.

• Form independent opinions on the basis of your own reason and experience; do not allow yourself to be led blindly by others.

• Question everything.

• Enjoy your own sex life (so long as it damages nobody else) and leave others to enjoy theirs in private whatever their inclinations, which are none of your business.

• Do not discriminate or oppress on the basis of sex, race or (as far as possible) species.

• Do not indoctrinate your children. Teach them how to think for themselves, how to evaluate evidence, and how to disagree with you.

• Value the future on a timescale longer than your own.