我真正的值得追求和保持的特色:
Utterly honest, and never dying of curiosity and learning!
Tags: Real personal value
The day you graduated from school, there is one thought: how little they actually taught me for almost 18 years! And this realization will be more and more clearer throughout the course of the rest of your life.
只要我们不丧失自我,
什么样的生活都可容忍;
我们尽可以失去一切,
只要我们依旧是我们。
回家自己家门上夹着一传单宣传什么选举权,你知道,自然是"红色"的。对这些文件造就当废纸了,但是这次突然因为无聊,仔细看看,好像是要求得事实来证明我已持有的观点一样。不出所料,除了一些什么"神圣的一票","履行光荣的选民职责"等等这样的话语外,另外还有不可忽视的文字说明怎么去注册选民的。发觉与其说是"怎么去成为选民",不如说是"什么是选民";这些文档上的中文,总是有一种混淆"how"和”what"的倾向。原来,不是任何合法诚实纳税的成年人都"是”"选民"的。
(P.S. 哦,还有,不要忘了,有没有选举权和会不会去投票是两回事。)
突然感觉Chalee Tennison 的歌很不错。
对于美丽的女人来说,幸福的条件很简单:找到那位真正爱自己和有事业感的,外表和内心都美的男人。
你不需要荣华来衬托自己。
Information A, 100个人中只有5个人知道,这5个人被认为深奥,其余的人被称为肤浅。
美丽
朴实无华, 敏感,细心
喜欢小孩
自信
开朗
英语好
充满好奇,不排除新鲜事物
这段日子过得很不好。因为我意识到自己拥有很严重的人际关系的交往能力的问题。以前,我以为我只要做到自己的诚实就可以了,所以,我可以大胆的说我是一个很自我中心的人。但是,最近通过很多事件的反省和朋友的帮助,我看到我这个自我中心的人可能对他人和我自己带来的危害。
是的,其实,更主要的,是它”对我自己带来的危害”。以前我以为只要我诚实,并表白自己是一个自我中心的人,至少自己会得到快乐。我有一系列的理论来支撑我这个观点:比如亚当斯密的个人主义的不可见之手,卡尔.波普尔的个人主义,利他主义和集体主义的关系——基本上是个人主义是和利他主义不相冲突的(想到父母和子女的关系,个人主义的真正对立面是集体主义)等等。但是,愚蠢的我没有意识,把这些理论观点错误的应用到现在我个人的私人生活不说,更是没有意识到其实这是一个非常大的自欺——我自己一直不感到快乐!谈何诚实?!
昨天借助一个非常好的朋友,让我认识到,If I can’t accept who I am, I can’t really to love someone else. 我明显的知道,这是我的一个根本的问题。对着镜子看看我自己吧,把所看到的人当做自己最好的朋友而不是敌人!
我知道这很难,而且会很漫长!但希望,今天是一个开始。
• Do not do to others what you would not want them to do to you.
• In all things, strive to cause no harm.
• Treat your fellow human beings, your fellow living things, and the world in general with love, honesty, faithfulness and respect.
• Do not overlook evil or shrink from administering justice, but always be ready to forgive wrongdoing freely admitted and honestly regretted.
• Live life with a sense of joy and wonder.
• Always seek to be learning something new.
• Test all things; always check your ideas against the facts, and be ready to discard even a cherished belief if it does not conform to them.
• Never seek to censor or cut yourself off from dissent; always respect the right of others to disagree with you.
• Form independent opinions on the basis of your own reason and experience; do not allow yourself to be led blindly by others.
• Question everything.
• Enjoy your own sex life (so long as it damages nobody else) and leave others to enjoy theirs in private whatever their inclinations, which are none of your business.
• Do not discriminate or oppress on the basis of sex, race or (as far as possible) species.
• Do not indoctrinate your children. Teach them how to think for themselves, how to evaluate evidence, and how to disagree with you.
• Value the future on a timescale longer than your own.